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A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting
Deborah Addington
Fantasy Made Flesh: The Essential Guide to Erotic Roleplay
Deborah Addington The essential guidebook for the creative and erotic art of sexual role-play. We all take on a variety of roles each day: parent, lover, employee, diplomat. And there are roles we fantasize about, yet dare not express: the slave, the barbarian, the princess, the delinquent, the whore. Can these roles become reality at least within the closed and trusting environment of the bedroom? Of course they can and should! Fantasy Made Flesh teaches readers to use their imaginations within a sensual/sexual context and give themselves permission to become the creatures of their dreams: * let go of self-consciousness and self-criticism * set the stage with props, environment and costumes * bring your most outrageous fantasies into living, breathing, incredibly-turned-on reality
How To Start A Kinky Relationship: The definitive guide to starting and sustaining a healthy, loving, satisfying alternative relationship.
James Amoureux "How To Start A Kinky Relationship" is for the kink-curious novice as well as the seasoned bondage master and long time S&M submissive. People who never had the pleasure of a kinky relationship will find all the tools they need to get the ball rolling. People who have been kinky in the past but “just fell into it” will have a systematic approach to starting and growing their next relationship. People who already self-identify as kinky or queer or pervert will find plenty of insights that will improve their overall communication and sexual relationships. This book delves into the mindset, activities, and communication styles that make kinky relationships great. It shows you how to get comfortable with kink, find partners, screen them for compatibility, communicate your desires, and grow your relationship. It does not detail rope bondage techniques, how to become a leather-studded sex machine, or how to use the Force to lure unsuspecting Jedi to the Kinky side. Rather it will help you understand your own personal preferences and how to find a compatible partner to play with. The focus of this book is on relationships, not landing kinky quickies with your online hook up. Still, casual encounters follow the same principles: know what you want, be congruent, define your relationship terms, get enthusiastic consent, and take responsibility for your actions. Then you can keep yourself busy having the most amazing, wild, mind-blowing sex the world has ever known.
Some Women
Laura Antoniou Introduction by Pat Califia. Over forty essays written by women actively involved in consensual dominance and submission. Professional mistresses, lifestyle leather- dykes, whipmakers, titleholderswomen from every conceivable walk of life lay bare their true feelings about issues as explosive as feminism, abuse, pleasure and public image. An indispensible volume for all interested or involved in this increasingly visible community.
The Toybag Guide to Erotic Knifeplay
Miranda Austin, Sam Atwood A shiny blade against smooth soft skin is terrifying, of course, but for many people also highly erotic. These knifeplay aficionados and sex educators have dissected the sexual appeal in this handy little guide to sexy, responsible knife and sharps play. You'll learn about the cultural significance of knives as fetish objects, phallic symbols and power icons, how to choose the best knife for your scene, and how to look scary, but be safe. An essential guide for anyone who wants to explore this tantalizing danger/pleasure.
Dare... to Try Bondage
Axterdam Whether a complete newcomer or a seasoned bondage expert, sexual adventurers can use this guide for simple, necessary instructions, scenarios, techniques, and advice. Including chapters on Shibari (the Japanese art of knot-tying), appropriate equipment, conducting a satisfying session, and what sensations to expect, this guide is a comprehensive resource for both men and women who are seeking sexual liberation and pleasure through restraint.
Ties That Bind: The SM/Leather/Fetish Erotic Style: Issues, Commentaries and Advice
Guy Baldwin, Joseph W. Bean The writings of one of the most respected and knowledgable people on the subject of SM/leather/fetish erotic style has been compiled in this book. Issues regarding relationships, the community, the SM experience, and personal transformation, as they relate to this form of erotic play, are addressed. Unlike many in the mental health field, Mr. Baldwin takes the approach that this style of erotic play can definitely be part of a healthy expression of one's sexuality. Many have benefitted from his sound advice in seminars, worjkshops and through his many published articles. Now, much of this man's wisdom has been published for you in this book.
Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage
Two Knotty Boys When Two Knotty Boys, Dan and J. D., began teaching rope bondage together in 1999, they discovered that most people learn best when they're shown — close up, step by step, and repeatedly — how to tie basic knots and combine them into bondage techniques. It is this learning process that they duplicate in this book. With the help of world-renowned photographer Larry Utley, they use over 750 photos and captions to explicate the soup-to-nuts techniques for turning great knots into great bondage that is safe, sensual, attractive, and effective. Readers can learn at their own pace, review whole techniques at a single glance, or even lay it flat on the table (beside their blindfolded partner) and follow along as they tie. Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes appeals to those interested in improving the quality of their sex lives, not to mention aficionados of bondage and discipline/sadomasochism (BDSM), both curious newcomers and serious players alike.
Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage
Two Knotty Boys When Two Knotty Boys, Dan and J. D., began teaching rope bondage together in 1999, they discovered that most people learn best when they're shown — close up, step by step, and repeatedly — how to tie basic knots and combine them into bondage techniques. It is this learning process that they duplicate in this book. With the help of world-renowned photographer Larry Utley, they use over 750 photos and captions to explicate the soup-to-nuts techniques for turning great knots into great bondage that is safe, sensual, attractive, and effective. Readers can learn at their own pace, review whole techniques at a single glance, or even lay it flat on the table (beside their blindfolded partner) and follow along as they tie. Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes appeals to those interested in improving the quality of their sex lives, not to mention aficionados of bondage and discipline/sadomasochism (BDSM), both curious newcomers and serious players alike.
Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes
Two Knotty Boys Tying down a load of lumber is one thing; tying up your partner is another thing altogether. In this book, famed bondage riggers the Two Knotty Boys show readers how to tie basic knots and use them in sensual bondage techniques. With the help of renowned photographer Ken Marcus, the Boys use more than 750 full-color photos to illustrate the techniques for turning rope into rope bondage. Easy-to-follow captions and clear, step-by-step images allow readers to learn at their own pace, review entire techniques at a glance, or lay the book flat on a bed or table and follow along as they subdue their partner. Written in a playful style that makes rope bondage safe and approachable, and covering a wide range of techniques from basic ties to decorative ropework pieces, Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes is the perfect bedside companion for curious newcomers and serious players alike.
Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission
William Brame, Gloria Brame, Jon Jacobs A breakthrough in sexual literature, this work is a complete, comprehensive user-friendly guide to and tour through the world of alternative sexual lifestyles. While the topics are exotic and erotic, the authors handle each one in a sensitive, thorough, analytical, and fascinating way and manage to explain a secret world to those who might wish to visit.
Fetish
David Bramwell, Petra Joy Come and enter the sexy, seductive, and secretive world of fetish. From Agalmatophilia (the desire to have sex with a mannequin) to Ophidicism (sexual arousal from snakes), this is the most comprehensive guide to outrageous erotic pleasures. Fetish includes stunning four-color photographs, step-by-step illustrations on acting out role-playing scenarios, and titillating advice on how to get the most out of sex toys, rubber wear, and whips. Whether you are a hard-core fetishist or simply curious, Fetish offers an insightful and colorful glimpse into the fascinating world of alternative sexual practices. AUTHOR BIO: David Bramwell is a writer and leading expert on fetish and alternative sexual practices. He lives in Brighton, England.

Petra Joy is an award-winning photographer whose work has appeared in many magazines. She has photographed some of the sex industry's most famous personalities, but also shoots erotic films and photography featuring amateur couples.
Best Fetish Erotica
Cara Bruce Whether the fetish is leather or lingerie, shoes or shaving accessories, 20 authors explore the whole spectrum of compulsive desire. Contributors include Susie Bright, J. T. Leroy, and Carol Queen. Editor Cara Bruce has been called “San Francisco’s hippest young erotica writer” by the San Francisco Examiner. Praise for Bruce's Best Bisexual Women's Erotica: "You'll find yourself at once deeply involved with the passionate characters and turned on by their delicious sex lives."—Good Vibrations
Masochism: Coldness and Cruelty & Venus in Furs
Gilles Deleuze, Leopold von von Sacher-Masoch In his stunning essay, Coldness and Cruelty, Gilles Deleuze provides a rigorous and informed philosophical examination of the work of the late 19th-century German novelist Leopold von Sacher-Masoch. Deleuze's essay, certainly the most profound study yet produced on the relations between sadism and masochism, seeks to develop and explain Masoch's "peculiar way of 'desexualizing' love while at the same time sexualizing the entire history of humanity." He shows that masochism is something far more subtle and complex than the enjoyment of pain, that masochism has nothing to do with sadism; their worlds do not communicate, just as the genius of those who created them - Masoch and Sade - lie stylistically, philosophically, and politically poles a part.Venus in Furs, the most famous of all of Masoch's novels was written in 1870 and belongs to an unfinished cycle of works that Masoch entitled The Heritage of Cain. The cycle was to treat a series of themes including love, war, and death. The present work is about love. Although the entire constellation of symbols that has come to characterize the masochistic syndrome can be found here - fetishes, whips, disguises, fur-clad women, contracts, humiliations, punishment, and always the volatile presence of a terrible coldness - these do not eclipse the singular power of Masoch's eroticism.
The New Topping Book
Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy Tens of thousands learned the emotional and ethical skills of BDSM topping from the first `Topping Book.` Now, in addition to the sage advice and good humor that made the first edition a classic, the authors tackle some of the issues that have come up for tops in the last six years: on-line domination, the challenges and rewards of `lifestyle` relationships, ensuring our own and our partners` safety, and more.
The Bottoming Book: How to Get Terrible Things Done to You by Wonderful People
Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt
When Someone You Love Is Kinky
Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt When Someone You Love Is Kinky to help "non-kinky" folks understand and communicate with their kinky friends, partners, and relatives. Included are guidelines for dealing with the emotional turmoil of the coming-out process; brief and non-threatening descriptions of the commonest kinks (and ideas about why people enjoy them); suggestions for how to talk to your kinky friend or relative in ways that promote good communication; explanation of how kinky people keep themselves safe while exploring diverse sexualities; a glossary of commonly used terminology from the kink communities; a resource guide to help the reader find further information and support.
The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners
Lady Green In the six years since her initial publication of a Xeroxed pamphlet called "The Sexually Dominant Woman", Lady Green has taught tens of thousands of women, men and couples the fundamentals of safe, fun, erotic female-dominant play. Now Lady Green returns with the publication of the revised and updated third edition of her classic The Sexually Dominant Woman. This friendly, non-threatening book is the perfect starting point for the woman who has fantasized about erotic power play, explaining the fundamentals of bondage, sensation and control games. It includes a script to inspire and support the novice through her first scene, a new section on partner-finding skills and updated information on the possible emotional effects of female-dominant play.
The Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning
Janet Hardy To the uninitiated, it’s a simple stick. To the skilled player, the cane is simple, beautiful, utilitarian and intense. Janet Hardy shares a decade and a half of expertise on both ends of the cane: use, materials, construction, maintenance, different styles of application, pacing, aftercare and much more.
The New Bottoming Book
Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton Almost a decade ago, the first `Bottoming Book` taught tens of thousands of people that bottoming - being a submissive, masochist, slave, `boy` or `girl,` or other BDSM recipient - is as much an art as topping. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised `New Bottoming Book` gives even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular bottom! New sections on dominance/submission play, bridging the gap from on-line to real-time relationships, the four stages of a scene, and more. Plus, Fish`s hot illustrations of bottoms in action, many moving and funny anecdotes, and an extra-large helping of the realistic wisdom for which these authors are known.
The New Bottoming Book
Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton Almost a decade ago, the first `Bottoming Book` taught tens of thousands of people that bottoming - being a submissive, masochist, slave, `boy` or `girl,` or other BDSM recipient - is as much an art as topping. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised `New Bottoming Book` gives even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular bottom! New sections on dominance/submission play, bridging the gap from on-line to real-time relationships, the four stages of a scene, and more. Plus, Fish`s hot illustrations of bottoms in action, many moving and funny anecdotes, and an extra-large helping of the realistic wisdom for which these authors are known.
The Toybag Guide to Age Play
Lee Harrington The adult baby, the sassy schoolgirl, the bratty teen – all hold an honored place in the erotic roleplaying imagination of many adults. International educator Lee “Bridgett” Harrington, an ageplay devotee of many years’ experience, explains the boundaries, possibilities and techniques of consensual adult ageplay.
Playing Well with Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities
Lee Harrington, Mollena Williams Whether you're a trembling novice or a jaded expert, there's always something new to be discovered in the endlessly changing, complex and titillating world of kink. While there are plenty of other books out there that explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book that explains kink *culture* — the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community. You'll learn to: * Examine your own motivations, needs, wants and desires * Ease your way into established communities * Understand etiquette in different adventurous sex communities * Familiarize yourself with the many types of events available to you * Care for your relationships as you explore new territory * Negotiate for play and aftercare * Go back to the "world at large” without ruffling feathers * …and, of course, answer the all-important question: What do you wear?! The team of Harrington and Williams offers 30-plus years of experience in diverse kink communities: top, bottom and switch; gay, bi and straight; female, male and trans; white and POC. Both former titleholders and international educators, they are an unbeatable pair of "sexual sherpas" with an inimitable voice and a great deal of wisdom. Playing Well With Others is an unprecedented and essential guidebook for anyone who wants to explore or understand the "community" aspect of the kink lifestyle.
Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé
Lee "Bridgett" Harrington Japanese rope bondage and erotic macramé look complicated and intimidating, but you can learn the basics of this beautiful and sexy art form today. Bondage artist and educator Lee "Bridgett" Harrington takes you step-by-step through a variety of concepts and ties, giving you the tools to make aesthetically rewarding rope work. Each tutorial is broken down into easy to follow photographs by Circle23 with detailed descriptions, including how to tie all those knots (first secret of Japanese bondage revealed- there are only a few simple knots). From restrictive poses that limit movement to decorative rope work that accentuates the human form, Shibari You Can Use includes instruction on creating: - Shinju (Chest Harnesses) - Gyakuebi (Asian Style Hogtie) - Ebi or Kuri (Shrimp or Ball ties) - Rope Corsets - Strap-on Harnesses and Crotch Ropes - .and much more! Shake off your fears of looking silly the first time you tie someone up, get some rope, and you too can learn Japanese rope bondage.
To Love, to Obey, to Serve: Diary of an Old Guard Slave
V. M. Johnson
The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance
Mistress Lorelei
Bootblacking 101: A Handbook
Andrew McDiarmid Andrew McDiarmid has two big passions in his life. He explored the first in his book, the fictional collection Smoke: Cigars and the Men That Enjoy Them. In this book, he explains his second. You see bootblacks everywhere at leather events, setting up their kits, snapping their towels and getting intimate with those black leather erogonous zones that cover..
The Sexual Deviate with Case Histories
Benjamin Morse MD
The Toybag Guide to Foot and Shoe Worship
Midori This is a handy manual to the delights of feet and footwear from Fetish Diva Midori. Includes * A guide to the varieties of feet, boots and shoes, and those who love them * How to give pleasure to feet * How to enjoy being the recipient of foot and shoe worship
Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink: Educational, Sensual, and Entertaining Essays
Midori Tired of standing on the sexual sidelines? Wonder what it's like to be a real kink adventurer? Let world famous Midori lead you into the thick of it. This new collection of smoldering wisdom and and frank essays explores the Wild Side of Sex, including these burning subjects: * Is Your Prospect a Proper Pervert’ * Fetishism: Sex, Romance, and Ritual * The Heart of Erotic Humiliation * Finding the Power Femme This delightfully twisted new volume entertains and titillates as well as educates, an erotic personal adventure exposing Midori's most helpful and empowering secrets.
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
Philip Miller, Molly Devon Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns Will Teach You All About Sadomasochism In A Book That Is Light-Hearted And Fun To Read. Screw The Roses Includes Over 225 Photographs And Illustrations, Designs For Making Your Own Sm Equipment, Tutorials In Bondage, Flogging, And Bullwhips, And Much, Much More. Finally There'S A Book With Clear Explanations For The Curious And Solid Advice, Safety Measures, And Steams Suggestions For The Adventurous.
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
Philip Miller, Molly Devon Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns Will Teach You All About Sadomasochism In A Book That Is Light-Hearted And Fun To Read. Screw The Roses Includes Over 225 Photographs And Illustrations, Designs For Making Your Own Sm Equipment, Tutorials In Bondage, Flogging, And Bullwhips, And Much, Much More. Finally There'S A Book With Clear Explanations For The Curious And Solid Advice, Safety Measures, And Steams Suggestions For The Adventurous.
Master/Slave: 30 Spanking Tales from the Top & 30 Stinging Tales from the Bottom
N. T. Morley A whip-cracking anthology of erotica-60 stories in all.

Thirty stories for the Master...
...told in the voices of dominant men exercising power over their willing women— who worship the pleasures these men so forcefully provide.

And thirty stories for the Slave...
...in which the pleasure of submission is celebrated, revered, and fulfilled. This is the anthology that pushes erotica to the limits.
How to be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM
Morpheous For singles and couples looking to take a walk on the wild side but questioning where to begin, How to be Kinky offers the perfect starting place. Instead of emphasizing techniques and clinical issues, it takes a more practical approach, with advice on finding a scene, negotiating kinky play with a partner, maintaining boundaries, kinky uses for common household objects, and the proper protocol at fetish events, as well as the basics of BDSM play and role-playing.
How to be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM
Morpheous For singles and couples looking to take a walk on the wild side but questioning where to begin, How to be Kinky offers the perfect starting place. Instead of emphasizing techniques and clinical issues, it takes a more practical approach, with advice on finding a scene, negotiating kinky play with a partner, maintaining boundaries, kinky uses for common household objects, and the proper protocol at fetish events, as well as the basics of BDSM play and role-playing.
How to be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM
Morpheous For singles and couples looking to take a walk on the wild side but questioning where to begin, How to be Kinky offers the perfect starting place. Instead of emphasizing techniques and clinical issues, it takes a more practical approach, with advice on finding a scene, negotiating kinky play with a partner, maintaining boundaries, kinky uses for common household objects, and the proper protocol at fetish events, as well as the basics of BDSM play and role-playing.
How to Be Kinkier: More Adventures in Adult Playtime
Morpheous Following the incredibly popular first book in the series, How to Be Kinkier dives deeper into the world of BDSM in the same accessible and fun style. With over 200 gorgeous full-color photos and 20 sexy step-by-step photo essays, this book educates and excites at the same time. Having introduced readers to the fun and fabulous basics of adult play with his first book, Morpheous now takes his audience on a trip into the naughtier side of their personalities.

With an introduction by porn star, feminist and sex educator Nina Hartley, a huge fan of the first book, How to Be Kinkier gives instruction and inspiration on how to discover your favorite fetish and find out just how kinky you really are.
How to Be Kinkier: More Adventures in Adult Playtime
Morpheous Following the incredibly popular first book in the series, How to Be Kinkier dives deeper into the world of BDSM in the same accessible and fun style. With over 200 gorgeous full-color photos and 20 sexy step-by-step photo essays, this book educates and excites at the same time. Having introduced readers to the fun and fabulous basics of adult play with his first book, Morpheous now takes his audience on a trip into the naughtier side of their personalities.

With an introduction by porn star, feminist and sex educator Nina Hartley, a huge fan of the first book, How to Be Kinkier gives instruction and inspiration on how to discover your favorite fetish and find out just how kinky you really are.
Imaginative Sex
John Norman In 1974, the author of the controversial and popular Gor novels revealed his vision for an exciting, fulfilling sex life for all.    Imaginative Sex outlines John Norman’s philosophy on relations between the sexes. In the first nine chapters, from “Imaginative Sex: The New Sexual Revolution,” through “Love, Hunters and Evolution,” “Marriage, Sex and Normality,” “Sex and the Brain,” “Marriage and the Ventilation of Emotions,” “Privacy,” “Disease,” “Requirements for Imaginative Sex,” to “Imaginative Techniques,” Norman details and develops his theories and ideas about sex in the modern age. In the tenth chapter, “Sensuous Fantasies: Recipes for Pleasure,” he presents fifty-three scenarios designed to reintroduce fantasy and intimacy to the bedroom. Examples include: the Aphrodisiac Fantasy, the Rites-of-Submission Fantasy, the Lady Fantasy, the I-Am-His-Slave-Girl Fantasy, the Safari Fantasy, and the Blindfolded-Lovers Fantasy, as well as many other sensuous suggestions, detailed for the enjoyment of all truly adult readers.    Find out what really lies behind the philosophy of Gor and the ways in which role-playing can spice up any love life. The book ends with an epilogue and a set of appendices that cover these important topics: Garments, Ties, Apparel in Fantasy, Notes on How to Buy a Slave Girl, and Notes on Investments, Documents, and Conception.
Sex Tips from a Dominatrix
Patricia Payne Welcome to D/s land.

Could your sex life use some new thrills? If so, here's your ticket to all those secret desires you've only confessed to your best friend in her dorm room at Deerfield: crops and corsets, nosebleed stilettos, leather, latex, and lambcuffs.

Whether you would like to make dominance and submission (D/s) a permanent part of your relationship, are brushing up for a weekend submersion session of Lina Wertmuller films, or are simply looking for a one-spank stand, Patricia Payne—exacting dominatrix and luxurious bon vivant—will guide you through this brave new underworld. Here, she shares step-by-step instructions on how to set the mood, decorate your room, pick a proper outfit, buy the best bonds, tie the exact knot, and wield the perfect quirt. She also gives tips on avoiding disaster and embarrassment, such as preventing nasty wax stains on the Kashan, so you can keep the bon in bondage.

Sex Tips From a Dominatrixcontains such forbidden fruits as:

Tips on Whips

BDSM Glamour Do's and Don'ts

Silencing Your Lamb

The Dope on Rope

How to Get Knotty

Aural Sex

Dungeon Decorum

Advanced Activities

So add a new whine to your cellar and get allwrapped up in lovemaking—with strings attached.
Sex Tips from a Dominatrix
Patricia Payne Welcome to D/s land.

Could your sex life use some new thrills? If so, here's your ticket to all those secret desires you've only confessed to your best friend in her dorm room at Deerfield: crops and corsets, nosebleed stilettos, leather, latex, and lambcuffs.

Whether you would like to make dominance and submission (D/s) a permanent part of your relationship, are brushing up for a weekend submersion session of Lina Wertmuller films, or are simply looking for a one-spank stand, Patricia Payne—exacting dominatrix and luxurious bon vivant—will guide you through this brave new underworld. Here, she shares step-by-step instructions on how to set the mood, decorate your room, pick a proper outfit, buy the best bonds, tie the exact knot, and wield the perfect quirt. She also gives tips on avoiding disaster and embarrassment, such as preventing nasty wax stains on the Kashan, so you can keep the bon in bondage.

Sex Tips From a Dominatrixcontains such forbidden fruits as:

Tips on Whips

BDSM Glamour Do's and Don'ts

Silencing Your Lamb

The Dope on Rope

How to Get Knotty

Aural Sex

Dungeon Decorum

Advanced Activities

So add a new whine to your cellar and get allwrapped up in lovemaking—with strings attached.
Masochism in Sex and Society Black Cat Books
Theodor Reik
Bondage For Sex
Chanta Rose Adult Ed has an entirely new meaning, thanks to this first-of-its-kind guide to bondage in consensual relationships. This book corrects many misconceptions about bondage, educating readers and giving them the tools needed to explore their desires using restraint and rope bondage. This type of erotic play requires trust between two people and can be a wonderful way to bond with a partner. Chanta crushes the misconception that bondage is violent or dangerous and explains • How to approach your partner in non-threatening way about your kinky desires • Professional, step-by-step instruction • Graphic, full-color photography With a few simple knots and some well-thought-out positions and guidance, you and your partner will be able to experience this taboo form of love making.
Part-Time Perverts: Sex, Pop Culture, and Kink Management
Lauren Rosewarne An interdisciplinary exploration of sexual perversion in everyday life, Part-Time Perverts: Sex, Pop Culture, and Kink Management starts from the premise that, for better or worse, everyone is exposed to a continual barrage of representations of sexual perversion, both subliminal and overt. Our involvement, Dr. Lauren Rosewarne contends, is universal, but our management strategies cover a spectrum of behavioral possibilities from total repression to total immersion.

It is those strategies that she examines here. Drawing on her own experience, as well as on pop culture and a multidisciplinary mix of theory, Rosewarne shifts the discussion of perversion away from the traditional psychological and psychiatric focus and instead explores it through a feminist lens as a social issue that affects everyone. Her book examines representations of perversion—from suppression to dabbling to full-body immersion—and proposes a classification for perversion management, and charts the diverse strategies we use to manage, and perhaps enjoy, exposure.
Power Exchange Books: Age Play
Robert Rubel Age play is a form of role play enjoyed by many adults worldwide. Age play never involves biological children and is a role play for consenting adults only. As you will read in this issue, there is no “one way” to live out the role one chooses. We have collected a gallery of age players from across the country who cover a wide scope of different orientations and personalities. Each of the authors showcased in this edition will share their story and style with you. It is our desire that those looking for a place to begin their age play journey will find a path of direction that will help them move forward. For those who have started your path, may you gather fresh ideas and outlooks to add to and enhance your age play. Join us as we share our heartfelt joys, heartbreaking sorrows, moments of personal enlightenment, and just plain fun moments through the articles that follow.
Erotic Power: An Exploration of Dominance and Submission
Gini Graham Scott
Erotic Power: An Exploration of Dominance and Submission
Gini Graham Scott
Erotic Power: An Exploration of Dominance & Submission
Gini Graham Scott Eroticism; dominance and submission
Intimate Invasion: The Erotic Ins and Outs of Enema Play
M. R. Strict The title says it all! Klismaphilia - enema play - is one of the last taboos of kinky sex, yet this style of play can be erotic, intense and safe. M.R. Strict, an experienced practitioner whose expertise and enthusiasm have been shared by hundreds of thousands of devotees on his website, shares some of his hottest and most outrageous personal enema experiences (with men and women, gay and straight). Between the anecdotes, he explains the psychology, physiology and safety issues of using enemas as a disciplinary scenario, part of a medical roleplay, preparation for other forms of play or simply as exciting foreplay. The first book that explains how to bring the thrilling yet forbidden practice of klismaphilia to your own bedroom!
Hellfire Sex 6
Khan Tusion Khan Tusion and Melissa Lauren team up to put the porn industry's hottest performers through the most intense sexual experiences of their lives!
Slave to Love: Sexy Tales of Erotic Restraint
Alison Tyler Restraint is sexy. It can be a simple leather strap, a shiny pair of handcuffs, a delicate silk scarf, or a dominant’s stern gaze. The yearning for a partner who will take control can grip one as powerfully as the most intricate, indecipherable rope knot. In Slave to Love, Alison Tyler gathers the most popular — and often most taboo — fantasies of sexual control and erotic restraint. Featuring such popular erotica writers as Thomas Roche, Saskia Walker, and Rachel Kramer Bussel, Slave to Love is luscious, naughty, and infinitely sexy.
The Art Of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women
Claudia Varrin Are you looking for something novel in your sex life, a new and exciting way to express your most intimate feelings? The Art of Sensual Female Dominance is an introduction to a different, more daring love-style. Leather one night, lace the next, D&S can provide the techniques and confidence to turn you into a different woman every night, the possibilities limited only by your imagination. Besides bringing adventure to the bedroom, female dominance can be liberating and life-changing, putting you in touch with your female power and heightening your self-esteem.
Female Dominance: Rituals And Practices
Claudia Varrin As a sexual adventurer, you have already taken the first steps into the magical world of romantic, consensual BDSM. You've started exploring the boundaries of your innermost fantasies in the arena of dominance and submission. You are on top in this breathless exchange of power—the one who takes whip in hand to orchestrate the most delightfully wicked ways of the domina.

Now, in Female Dominance, former professional dominatrix and glamorous fetish diva Claudia Varrin helps you and your ever-willing slave take it to the next level. This lavish, fully illustrated book guides you through the deeper waters of safe and consensual dominance and submission play, from bondage techniques to having a well-trained slave, from fabulous fetishes to role-play, alternative disciplines and "Edge Play." As the Mistress, you will learn to recognize how far your slave is willing to go to fulfill his darkest desires—and how far you will go to give them to him.

Filled with real-life tales and anecdotes, plus sample sessions to get you started, a glossary, and recommended reading list, Female Dominance contains everything you need to establish new bonds of trust between you and your slave—and to further overcome inhibitions to reach the peaks of ecstasy. Explorations of the philosophy and emotions behind dominance and submission allow you to see the big picture of this positive way to safe, wild, and wicked fun.
The Female Dominant: Games She Plays
Claudia Varrin Enter the world of a glamorous Dominant Diva.

What happens in the exotic, erotic shadowland of a professional dominatrix? In The Female Dominant, diva Claudia Varrin gives you a tantalizing glimpse in this collection of titillating real-life tales. From naughty sessions with her treasured slaves to one-night-only encounters, from one-on-one play friends to games with multiple mistresses and submissives, Varrin lifts the veil and reveals an underground realm of consensual bondage, role-playing, cross-dressing, fetishism, tortures tender and cruel, and more.

Varrin plays by her own rules—rules to make men beg, grovel, and plead for more. With exclusive interludes from spanking to slave training, bondage to boy toys, Varrin will open your mind to the joys of erotic fun and games, incite you to new heights with devilishly delightful ideas, help you liberate your dominant desires, and fuel your sexual self-esteem. Whether a dominant diva or a voracious voyeur, you'll get your fill—and more—in the pages of The Female Dominant. Can you take it?

Let yourself go with exciting tales like:

"The Boy in Bondage"

"Foot Felon"

"The Dance of the Threesome"

"Cissy Maid"

"Of Needles and Nails"

"Remote Control Slave"

"She-Wolf in Sheep's Clothing"

And more!

Whether you're a voyeur or looking for sexual inspiration from true "playtime" stories, the experiences recounted in The Female Dominant are sure to titillate and thrill you.
The Loving Dominant
John Warren Everything the amateur player needs to know about heterosexual, male-dominant love-making. Warrenaka Mentoris a longtime participant in the dominance/submission scene. As he guides readers through this rarely seen world, he offers clear-eyed advice that will refresh and enlighten the most well-informed erotic explorers. Most importantly, Mentor discusses the hidden basis of the D/S relationship: the care, trust and love between partners.
The Loving Dominant
John Warren, Libby Warren Everything the amateur player needs to know about heterosexual, male-dominant love-making. Warrenaka Mentoris a longtime participant in the dominance/submission scene. As he guides readers through this rarely seen world, he offers clear-eyed advice that will refresh and enlighten the most well-informed erotic explorers. Most importantly, Mentor discusses the hidden basis of the D/S relationship: the care, trust and love between partners.
Tipping the Velvet: A Novel
Sarah Waters This stunning and steamy debut chronicles the adventures of Nan King, a small-town girl at the turn of the century whose life takes a wild turn of its own when she follows a local music hall star to London...

"Glorious...a sexy, sinewy sojourn of a young woman in turn-of-the-century England."—The Boston Globe

"Erotic and absorbing...If lesbian fiction is to reach a wider readership, Waters is the person to carry the banner."—The New York Times Book Review

"Wonderful...a sensual experience that leaves the reader marveling at the author's craftsmanship, idiosyncrasy and sheer effort."—The San Francisco Chronicle

"Amazing....This is the lesbian novel we've all been waiting for."—Salon.com

"Compelling...Readers of all sexes and orientations should identify with this gutsy hero as she learns who she is and how to love."—Newsday

"Echoes of Tom Jones, Great Expectations...Waters's debut offers terrific entertainment: pulsating with highly charged (and explicitly presented) erotic heat."—Kirkus Reviews (starred review)
The Toybag Guide to Playing With Taboo NOT FOR CHECKOUT
Mollena Williams For those turned on to giving or receiving power, the hottest fantasies are often those that are the least acceptable — those that mirror historical oppression (Nazism, plantation slavery), crime (incest, ageplay, rape), and other "unacceptable" behaviors. Because these fantasies are deeply charged, they are among the riskiest and most challenging to enact. Yet it is possible, and often very rewarding, to do so. In this guide, Mollena Williams, a Black woman who enjoys roleplaying racism and slavery with the right person, explains ways to safeguard these difficult scenes to ensure the emotional and physical safety of all concerned. With sections on playing with sexual taboos like age and rape, cultural taboos like race and identity, and physical taboos like scat play, this is a thorough and responsible guide to BDSM's furthest regions.
SM101: A Realistic Introduction
Jay Wiseman
SM101: A Realistic Introduction
Jay Wiseman
Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook
Jay Wiseman If you can tie your shoelaces, you can create an erotic masterpiece! From the author of SM 101 comes this compendium of sensible, sensational advice about how to tie up your sweetie, or get tied up yourself. Everything from simple hands-behind-the-back experimentation to immobilizing spreadeagles and hogties - all presented with Wiseman's trademark humor and responsibility. Simple and easy-to-follow, with no complex knots and plenty of illustrations to guide you on your way to bound bliss.
The Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies and Supplies
Jay Wiseman An essential quick reference guide to minor and major emergencies that can take place during play û from scrapes to freakouts to fires — plus how to set up a cost-effective first aid kit and other emergency supplies for the sexually adventurous.
Masochism
L.T. Woodward The line between pleasure and pain is an extremely vague one for all of us. But the masochist not only fails to draw any distinct boundaries between these two arbitrary concepts, he totally misunderstands their nature. In him, pleasure and pain do battle, and yet they become one; he strives to abase himself, to make himself ridiculous and contemptible. Although masochism seems to go against the most basic instincts of the living creature—the instincts of self-preservation, of pain avoidance, of the desire for dignity—it invades the masochist's life on every level of activity. What are the roots of masochism? How does it begin? What prompts a person to seek punishment and degradation? Can it be "cured?" These are only a few of the questions answered in this comprehensive work, with actual case histories!